Tips to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex plays a vital role in our lives. Maintaining a great sex life consists of various things. We use sex to feel safe, sexy and secure, but sometimes life hits us hard and we find ourselves getting less of it. We understand the frustrations, and we're here to help. Here is a list of tips that we believe can help improve your sex life.  

  1. Communication: Talking to your partner outside of the bedroom about sex may seem awkward,  which may be true -- but you will never know how your partner truly feels until you begin to have those conversations. Use it as an opportunity to discuss the things that are currently working for each of you or vice versa, as well as express some sexual fantasies that you may have on your own. Verbally express everything that you love about each others bodies and ask what he/she likes. Don't forget to mention what turns each other on and do more of it.
  2. Foreplay: Let's admit there isn't a such thing as great sex without foreplay. Get into the habit of using foreplay during every session. It will help set the mood, and by starting off with it leads to better sexual experiences. It is important to ensure that your partner is aroused to enhance the experience. You can tease each other while you're out for dinner, grocery shopping (we know we're bad gals), or even while taking a walk or a drive. Why wait until you're home? Go ahead and send those flirty texts while working or when you're away from each other to set the mood.
  3. Sex in New Places: Do you ever get tired of that same old missionary bedroom sex? Simply change where you're having sex at. Don't be afraid to get frisky and be adventurous. You can have sex in your car while parked in your driveway, sneak off at a family event, in public parks, or even just have sex in your living room or kitchen. Just switch up locations and remember by any means necessary. 
  4. Buy Lingerie: When is the last time that you have purchased some sexy lingerie? Yes, we know that big t-shirts can be comfortable and are tempting to throw on, but at some point we've got to remind ourselves of what is being hidden underneath. Order some sexy lingerie from your favorite store, Naked Cravings. Lingerie helps boost your self-esteem all while seducing your partner. After a perfect date night put on some lingerie and live out your wildest fantasy. Get into character and dress up in roleplay lingerie. Try different positions. Introduce oral sex into your life. Try sex enhancement products or even sex toys whatever you and your partner are comfortable with. 

Personally, I have used all of these steps and have seen a significant improvement in my sex life. Wearing lingerie has given me a boost of confidence. My skin has been glowing. I’m starting to love every inch of my body and my partner can’t stop complimenting me or keep his hands to himself. It's a win-win situation where you develop self love all while getting sexual pleasure. I hope you enjoy these tips.


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